SPIRITUAL CORNER
SPIRITUAL CORNER - The Nature Of Ego
- IBJ Bureau
- May 07, 2025

Questioner: Which one goes through birth and death (the
coming and going; avagaman),
the Soul or the body?
Dadashri: Neither the body nor the Soul undergoes
birth and death (avagaman).
Only the ego does. This body comes with all its necessities, but it is mainly
the ego that comes and goes. The cycles of birth and death come to an end, for
the one whose ego has ended.
Questioner: What is a true definition of ego?
Dadashri: The world has not understood the real
meaning of the ego. It is not how they understand it. Each understands it
according to his own language (bhasha; interpretation). Isn’t everyone’s
‘language’ different? But it will not do, as far as the language of God goes.
You will be put to the test, because ‘there’ (in matters of liberation), it
will not work. Ego means that although one does not do anything, one asserts,
‘I am the doer’ (ahamkar).
That is the false assertion (aropit bhaav; false imposition). It is
called ego. The primary thing is the ego, and from it arises all kinds of words
like: maan (pride), abhimaan (excessive pride due to material
possessions), garva (ego of doership), ghemaraji (pompous display
without any substance), etc. What kind of a thing is abhimaan? In it the
aropit bhaav (false assertion) which is the ego, is there, but when
someone shows off by saying: “I have four bungalows, and I have two cars,” it
is called abhimaan. To claim to do something, when one is not the doer
is called egoism (ahamkar).
Questioner: The Gita (The Bhagavad Gita, the sacred
text of knowledge given by Lord Krishna to Arjun in the Mahabharata war)
mentions that the ego is the principle thing; therefore, it must have existed
before the origin of everything, right?
Dadashri: It is a thing before the utpatti (origin, beginning). What the Gita
says is right. The ego does not come after utpatti. Primarily, it is the
ego that comes first, and then comes the origination. You will realise the
fruit of whatever karma you have done with the ego in this life in the next
life. In truth, it is someone else that is the ‘doer’, but it is through your
illusion (bhranti) that you believe you have ‘done’ it. If you yourself
were the doer, then you would not allow yourself to die (nanami). No one
has the independent power and energy (shakti) to evacuate his bowels.
Nevertheless, he does have other powers, but they have not yet manifested. And
he who says, ‘I am doing’, is outside of his ‘own’ (the Self’s) power (shakti).
Don’t people say: “I ate, I drank, or I am hungry”? If you are hungry, then why
don’t you put out that hunger? And he would say: ‘No, I cannot satisfy my
hunger without putting some food in my stomach.’
The ego
arises first, and then the body is formed; thereafter, all the other external
results (parinam)
eventuate. Karma is created by the ego, and this is the consequence of that.
This mind, body and speech are the fruits (consequences). The ego is the
‘cause’ and the mind, body and speech are the ‘effect’. ‘Cause and effect’,
‘effect and cause’: this is how everything continues. The Gnani Purush can stop
the causes, so only the effect is left. And so, there will never again be
another effective body.
To be Continued…
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